Well Lights has another blog on LiveJournal and some of the people on there asked some questions about me and my views, so I figured what the heck and am going to post some responses.
When did he first realize this side of him?
I realized this aspect of my personality some time ago, but kept putting it off due to the way I was raised to view relationships and most aspects of life. I guess I truly realized it during my deployment and through meditation. I had some interactions with people in the lifestyle online during that time and researched all sorts of stuff about it.
How far does he take it into his daily interactions with women?
I treat women with respect and dignity in my daily interactions. Honestly I feel just because I am a master doesn't mean I am better than anyone person. Respect earns trust and submission better than fear and anger.
When did you first learn of BDSM and how did you react?
I learned about BDSM actually when I was very young, so I didn't understand it like I do now. I was raised very conservative and thought alot of things were very wrong. But when I realized that it was something that I was interested in, I researched it and got more and more excited about it. Finally I learned that it was a good thing when all parties are consenting.
What led him to identifying as and becoming a Master?
I initially identified as a Dominant, but as Lights and my relationship developed, her and I both decided on trying to incorporate a M/s relationship into things and I have become more and more of a Master for Lights as I go, though I still make mistakes.
What are his expectations from his submissive?
My expectations for Lights and any of my submissives/slaves (should I have more in the future) is for them to be respectful at all times to me and those that treat them with respect, to do what they are told quickly and efficiently, and to be open to change in all aspects so we can grow and learn.
Given a choice of only one form of "punishment" what would it be?
I don't like using punishments, but when I do I like using writing assignments with them giving what they did wrong, the reasoning behind it and what they are going to do in the future to correct it. Physical punishments aren't needed most of the time, I haven't had a need for one yet.
That's all I got for now, I hope you enjoy and take care.
Stay True
Alpha Hellion
When did he first realize this side of him?
I realized this aspect of my personality some time ago, but kept putting it off due to the way I was raised to view relationships and most aspects of life. I guess I truly realized it during my deployment and through meditation. I had some interactions with people in the lifestyle online during that time and researched all sorts of stuff about it.
How far does he take it into his daily interactions with women?
I treat women with respect and dignity in my daily interactions. Honestly I feel just because I am a master doesn't mean I am better than anyone person. Respect earns trust and submission better than fear and anger.
When did you first learn of BDSM and how did you react?
I learned about BDSM actually when I was very young, so I didn't understand it like I do now. I was raised very conservative and thought alot of things were very wrong. But when I realized that it was something that I was interested in, I researched it and got more and more excited about it. Finally I learned that it was a good thing when all parties are consenting.
What led him to identifying as and becoming a Master?
I initially identified as a Dominant, but as Lights and my relationship developed, her and I both decided on trying to incorporate a M/s relationship into things and I have become more and more of a Master for Lights as I go, though I still make mistakes.
What are his expectations from his submissive?
My expectations for Lights and any of my submissives/slaves (should I have more in the future) is for them to be respectful at all times to me and those that treat them with respect, to do what they are told quickly and efficiently, and to be open to change in all aspects so we can grow and learn.
Given a choice of only one form of "punishment" what would it be?
I don't like using punishments, but when I do I like using writing assignments with them giving what they did wrong, the reasoning behind it and what they are going to do in the future to correct it. Physical punishments aren't needed most of the time, I haven't had a need for one yet.
That's all I got for now, I hope you enjoy and take care.
Stay True
Alpha Hellion
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