Trying to find compramise

Cherie is a city girl, always has been. I alas am not a city boy, I was born and raised in the country, and while I do not ascribe to all of the country life tenants, I do have a fondness for the isolation and the privacy that comes with it. Lately, I have been looking at possible cities that I can compromise with, one that I can go to an isolated, nature rich place where I can wind down if a day is to rough. Cherie wants to go to school at University of Nebraska Kearney here in town, so any move will be on hold, she needs this opportunity also. Any good suggestions, preferably without major winter issues.

Unwinding

I have been trying to unwind all night from work, a very long day at work, and it seems Cherie is delibratley trying to keep me wound up. Thats all.

Gangbang and some thoughts on it.

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Code of Conduct and new rules for Cherie and any future s/type partners

Been awhile since I posted last, training been taking a lot of time and I haven't wanted to. But I came up with some new rules and a Code of Conduct for Cherie and any s/type I should be involved with. So here it goes. Note these are written for her to say.

Code of Conduct
1. I will obey Master and complete given tasks in a timely manner.

2. If a task/chore is not completed, I will inform Master and accept the given discipline/punishment.

3. I will not think negatively of myself, or in a way that reflects negatively on myself as Masters slave.

4. I will use tact when speaking to those with whom I disagree with. This shows discipline as Masters slave.

5. Masters decision is final. To challange it is disrespectful.

6. When asked for my opinion, I will state it with reasons.

7. I will stay motivated, as it will help Master stay motivated.

8. If I am having a problem I will inform Master immediately.

Duties/Chores
1. Make coffee

2. Make bed

3. Write three positive things about myself

4. Exercise*

5. Vaccum*

6. Post on blog*

7. Talk to Fetlife friends*

8. Be kneeling at foot of couch when Master gets home.*

9. Remain naked inside apartment

10. Shave and shower daily

11. Pick up dirty clothes
* Dependant on work schedule, still must be done, just at different time

There they are, tell me what you all think.

What I would like in a Clan

Well the other night I asked Cherie about what kind of people she would like to have in our Clan, I am officially calling it a Clan because it fits better than pack. She said she wasn't sure and would write it down once she figured it out. Well it has been a couple days and I figured I would write out my thinking on it to help get the thought processes flowing for her. And well.... here it goes.

I think, at least for a start, a total of four people is a good number to start out with. I think that things should be balanced, two D-types and two S-types. I feel the other D-type should have some aspects of a Daddy/Mommy personality, so Cherie has someone that understands her Little side more. But, I feel that they should also have a Master/Mistress attitude as well, to keep Cherie in her slave space when I am not around. For the second s-type, I feel that a good mix of slave, little, masochist, and sub are really required. I would like both to be like a brother/sister to both of us. I am not going for physical types at the moment sense It is more important to find those who can mentally meet our needs and wants as well as the physical. 

Pack

So Cherie asked me to post what I meant by "pack" in my last post. I just wanted to tell her, but she brought up it is easier for her to learn by reading. Well sense that made sense, here it goes. When I think of a pack, I think of An alpha couple, with other couples below them. Now D-type members of the couples are still above the s-type members of other couples, but they still must ask permission from a higher ranked D-type. Now, the ranking is usually determined by whichever couple first suggests, and then... I honestly haven't figured it all yet lol.

Poly thinkings

I have been thinking about the whole poly amorous thing lately and I am getting more and more okay with it. I have been talking to people who are in those relationships and reading several writings on fetlife that helped me quite a bit. I am at a point where I just need to think about what I want in the relationship, for both me and for Cherie. I know what basic things Cherie would like and I just need to figure out which ones I am okay with. And honestly I am not sure what all I would like in this. I know I have always wanted my own "pack" for the lack of a better term, with Cherie and I being the Alpha couple. That is all I got for now, just need to get ready and do some final pack for the move. Hopefully it isn't too hot today.